Direction: Parents tend to spoil their own children either by overindulgence or by deprivation. Childhood should be the time for (171) from primary selfishness to sharing, for learning to (172) with deprivation and disappointment and learning to (173) failure, since breaking a toy and forgetting a homework assignment are (174) serious than breaking a marriage or forgetting to prepare for career advancement. But (175) deprivation, as is common in (176) families, leaves many children (177) the stage of personal gratification. They lack resources for developing a sense of (178) towards others and a wish to care for them. And children (179) be poor to be underprivileged. The (180) are also deprived, cheated out of learning how to face life.